Princess Anne's 'invisible' husband from stolen letters to awkward title snub

Princess Anne has certainly had a dramatic year – but there is one person she can always count on for quiet support.

After spending five nights in hospital in June after suffering a concussion following a horror horse accident, her husband Vice Admiral Sir Timothy Laurence was at her side, visiting her in hospital and sweetly bringing her “a few little treats” from home. The former naval officer is often a discrete support at his wife’s side as she travels up and down the country, which often earns her the title of the hardest working role.

And it was on this day in 1992 that the couple wed, meaning they are celebrating their 32nd wedding anniversary today. The couple tied the knot in a small, private ceremony at Balmoral following Anne’s divorce from Captain Mark Phillips. But despite their long marriage, Sir Tim appears to keep out of the limelight and is a non-working member of the family with no title….

Early days

Princess Anne with her husband Vice Admiral Timothy Laurence (
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Sir Tim was born in Camberwell, London, in March 1955, making him five years younger than his wife. He attended Durham University, where he was the editor of the famous student newspaper Palatinate and gained a degree in geography.

After graduating, he attended the Royal Naval College Dartmouth and enjoyed an illustrious naval career serving on several ships, including the Royal Yacht Britannia and rising to the rank of commander. In 1986 he was appointed an equerry to the late Queen – a personal assistant, who is usually derived from the armed forces – and it is during this time he is said to have met his future wife.

Stolen letters

The first whispers of a closeness between Sir Tim and Anne – who was still married to first husband Captain Mark Phillips at the time – came in 1989 when personal letters were stolen. A newspaper then reported on the existence of these letters but did not reveal who Anne had received them from.

Buckingham Palace later revealed they were from Sir Tim and issued a statement saying: “The stolen letters were addressed to the Princess Royal by Commander Timothy Laurence, the Queen’s Equerry. We have nothing to say about the contents of personal letters sent to Her Royal Highness by a friend which were stolen and which are the subject of a police investigation.”

Balmoral wedding

The couple on their wedding day in 1992 (
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In 1992, once Anne’s divorce from her first husband was finalised, she was then free to marry to Sir Tim. Their wedding took place at Crathie Kirk near Balmoral Castle in a service that was attended by roughly 30 guests, including the late Queen and Prince Philip as well as Anne’s children Zara Tindall and Peter Phillips.

Instead of a traditional wedding gown, Anne wore a high neck white midi dress with a matching jacket, carried a posy of heather and wore a sprig of flowers in her hair. The couple then settled and still live together on the Gatcombe estate in Gloucestershire close to both Peter as well as Zara and her husband Mike Tindall.

Special privilege

The working members of the Royal Family on the Buckingham Palace balcony earlier this year when Sir Tim was allowed to join them (
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Despite his low-profile nature, it seems Sir Tim holds a special place in the royal family, with the late Queen seemingly fond of him. Although he didn’t receive a royal title upon marriage, he was since been made a Knight Commander of the Royal Victorian Order and was also a personal aide-de-camp to the late Queen.

Last year at the time of her Platinum Jubilee celebrations, he was given special permission to join the monarch on the Buckingham Palace balcony after Trooping the Colour . It had previously been announced that the Queen would only allow working royals to join her for the flypast, but made a special exception for Sir Tim, two of her grandchildren and three of her great-grandchildren.

A Palace spokesman explained the decision and said: “In addition the Cambridge and Wessex children, also expected to appear as is Sir Tim Laurence, who the Queen is happy to attend as a frequent attendee and support for the Princess Royal on official engagements.”