Kate Middleton and Prince William’s five rules for an unbreakable marriage

Kate Middleton and Prince William’s five rules for an unbreakable marriage
It’s been 13 years since Prince William and Kate Middleton tied the knot in Westminster Abbey – and the couple are closer than they’ve ever been. According to a royal butler, it’s down to five key aspects

Princess Kate and Prince William’s marriage has gone from strength to strength ever since their fairytale royal wedding in April 2011.

Now, 13 years down the line, the couple share three children together and have formed a tight family unit.

But they have also faced challenging times, including the death of William’s grandparents, Prince Philip and the Queen, the ongoing fall-out with Prince Harry, and both the King and Kate’s cancer battles.

Kate Middleton and Prince William's Royal Wedding Day: A Look Back

Despite that, the couple remain rock solid – and it’s all down to five golden rules, according to former royal butler Grant Harrold, who worked for King Charles between 2004 and 2011.

First up, Grant said that the couple have a shared sense of humour, noting that while William has a ‘serious side’, he is also very funny. “He’s like the Queen in that respect. His humour is quite unexpected,” he told OK!.

Similarly, Kate is very funny – and frequently gets the giggles when she is with William, which will set him off laughing, too.

Secondly, the pair both put family first. Both Princess Diana and King Charles were keen to give William and Harry as normal an upbringing as they could – and Kate is incredibly close to her family, something her husband loves.

Grant noted: “They’re very hands-on. The Queen adored her family but duty often came first. Whereas with William and Kate, their kids are always the number one priority and it’s something they both agree upon.”

Another key element of their marriage is the fact it is built on friendship. William and Kate were good friends at St. Andrews before falling in love which has set them up for a happy relationship. And they have a number of shared interests, including sports; the pair are famously competitive.

“Whether they’re holding hands or placing a hand on the other’s back to check in and reassure. I’ve seen how close and connected they are,” Grant added. “Just very tactile and sweet to one another. They always reminded me of the Queen and Prince Philip. They’re a great team because they’re great friends.”

With that in mind, William and Kate also understand the importance of making time for one another, and will carve out date nights away from their three children. It’s another way of checking in on each other and allows them to focus on being husband and wife and not just parents.

Finally, the future King is an old romantic! Grant recalled: “I remember him asking me to help with a candlelit dinner for Kate to celebrate Valentine’s Day. It was the Valentine’s after they got engaged and shortly before their wedding. I was so happy to be involved and I’m sure William picked Kate’s favourite dessert as a surprise.”

Shoppers love ‘really good’ serum that is clinically proven to brighten skin
Read more

Related Posts

McLaren’s official appeal over the British GP penalty has been dismissed by the FIA, putting an end to their hopes of reversing the controversial decision that overshadowed the race’s final moments.

Photo: © IMAGO McLaren F1 star Oscar Piastri has issued a verdict over whether he or his papaya team would be questioning the penalty handed to him at…

“Lewis Hamilton breaks silence: ‘I do miss Mercedes’ – a raw admission that stuns F1 paddock as Ferrari’s performance woes threaten to derail his final championship dreams.”

Photo: © IMAGO Lewis Hamilton has revealed that he has ‘missed’ Mercedes during his first season at Ferrari, in a stunning admission from the F1 champion. The 40-year-old’s switch to Ferrari…

‘He still has so much to give’: Max Verstappen stuns paddock by suggesting Sergio Perez could become surprise weapon for rival team next season.

Photo: © IMAGO Reigning F1 champion Max Verstappen has backed his former Red Bull team-mate Sergio Perez for a return to the paddock in 2026. Perez drove alongside the Dutchman between…

Fred Vasseur Reveals How Alonso’s Trickery May Have Led Ferrari Into Costly Error Against Lewis Hamilton at Silverstone

Lewis Hamilton came close to his first podium finish for Ferrari in the 2025 F1 British Grand Prix, yet fell just short as Sauber star Nico Hulkenberg…

While the world watches Red Bull and Mercedes, a silent storm is brewing in Maranello: Lewis Hamilton and Jérôme D’Ambrosio are engineering a power shift inside Ferrari that could rewrite the team’s future — and no one in Italy saw it coming until now.

The Ferrari Reinvention No One Saw Coming: How Lewis Hamilton and Jérôme D’Ambrosio Are Quietly Rebuilding a Dynasty There was no fiery press conference. No dramatic photo…

Red Bull’s reckless gamble didn’t just hurt Max Verstappen — it may have shattered their season. With a 69-point deficit and rising pressure from rivals, questions are swirling inside the paddock: has the team grown complacent, arrogant, or simply blind to the storm that’s now crashing down on them?

Red Bull’s British Gamble: How a Risky Strategy for Verstappen Unraveled at Silverstone In the high-stakes world of Formula 1, every decision is a gamble, but at…